BLAME

Every time in your life there's someone to else to blame for. Any thing wrong or bad. they did to you, or life. But can we ever have ownership and say "it's my fault". Can we ever blame ourselves?

Is hard to ever blame ourselves. For some reason we always tent to live in denial. For what, so we can show society we're perfect. Sorry but God created a life for us to learn from our own mistakes. Why do we have so much pride to say "sorry it was my fault" those words are so simple. Yet is so difficult to bring them out of our mouth.

Well life is tough. But you pick your self up from those bumpy rides. Honestly when something goes wrong into my life. I blame myself for it. Because I knew I'm the only one that can decide how and when I want things in my life. But for some reason when it comes to relationship is so hard. You know that if your relationship is bad and yet you give it another shot, deep down inside you feel that it will not change. Yet we still go through it and we get hurt badly. So what's left? Well is simple we blame the other.

Perhaps if we sit down and analyze that it was really us. For going to the same path again.
But when love is in the way there's no way in hell you can say no to another chance! Therefore we realize as much we love our significant other. That it is really ourselves for letting go that far. Than you're stuck, because you don't want to leave the other person. Because you don't want them to think that you gave up on them. But really you're leaving the relationship because you keep on doing the same thing. You're tired of hurting yourself.

After all you did for them even if was worth it or not. We learn that our love life doesn't have to be perfect. Maybe next time it will be less complicated. But you learn how to blame yourself for hurting yourself. Really all you did was learned. But what happens when you don't? You keep doing it over and over. What do you count on? What do you do when someone else hurt you, and yet you know is your fault for letting it happened? How do you explain it to them, that is not hard to for them to include you in their lives? Nevertheless all we have is nothing but to blame ourselves.